BERGENFIELD, NJ – Two high schools in nearby states are grappling with the sudden loss of a cherished coach, Robert Violante, who was one of four people killed in a tragic accident on the Taconic State Parkway. Known affectionately as “Coach V,” Violante’s influence stretched far beyond the sports field, leaving an indelible mark on students and colleagues alike.
Violante was a standout athlete during his time at Somers High School in the 1990s, later becoming a beloved coach at Bergenfield High School in New Jersey. Students and faculty are mourning his loss, expressing that the school year and future will feel significantly different without him. His presence was likened to a “gentle giant,” reminiscent of a character from the film “Kindergarten Cop.”
Beginning his career as a special education teacher, Violante transitioned into coaching, where he became a pivotal figure in the lives of many students. Julio and Anthony, both seniors at Bergenfield High, described him as more than just a coach, referring to him as a second father who genuinely cared for his students’ success.
The accident occurred when a van traveling southbound crossed over into the northbound lanes, colliding with Violante’s vehicle. Tragically, the three passengers in the van, Dennis Balladares Martinez Harrison, Mauricio Reyes Rivera, and Brian Aguilar Castillo, also lost their lives. The driver, Yadira Reyes, remains in critical condition.
At Bergenfield High, Violante served as both a football and track coach, as well as the dean of students. His approach to discipline was compassionate, always allowing students the opportunity to explain themselves and offering them second chances.
Before his coaching career, Violante was celebrated as a star quarterback and basketball player at Somers High School. His athletic prowess earned him recognition, including a ceremony honoring him and other notable athletes from the school’s past.
Mark Hadam, the athletic director at Somers Central School District, reflected on Violante’s life, emphasizing that while sports were a significant part of his life, it was his relationships with students, his community, and his family that truly defined him. Violante was known for his unwavering support of his family, often attending his nephew’s games whenever he had a spare moment.
Violante’s legacy is further enriched by his family’s deep roots in coaching and athletics. His father was a well-known coach and athletic director at Somers High School, and his brother continues to coach within the district, underscoring the family’s enduring impact on the community.